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Funeral checklist
It is usual for the
funeral home to contact me on your behalf, however, if you
wish, you can contact me first and I will assist you in whatever way
I can with making the funeral arrangements.
I will make an
appointment with you, at a mutually convenient time,
usually at your home. It is not necessary for all family
members to be present, however usually the immediate
family wish to be there. At this interview we can talk
about the life of your loved one and some of the questions you will
be asked include the following:
- Date and place
of birth
- Information
about childhood and schooling.
- Details of work
- Personal
information, such as important events like engagement,
marriage, special celebrations and
achievements, places of residence
- A description of
the loved one's personality, characteristics, etc.
- Hobbies,
interests, community involvement, travel
- Sporting
involvement as player or spectator
- Preference for
prayer or poetry within service
- Names of other
speakers or readers
You should also
give consideration to the music used for the
ceremony. If your loved one had a favourite
song or songs, they can be played at appropriate
times. Perhaps you have a favourite song of your own to
play or you can select from the standard songs available at
most funeral homes and crematoriums or from my own collection.
The interview
session is relaxed and informal, and I give you my
promise to help you feel as comfortable as can be during what is
often a very sad and tense time.
I also like to see
some photos of your loved one so that I have a very clear image in
my mind.
All care
and every effort is made to ensure that the eulogy is
absolutely accurate. Communication by email
with clients allows an excellent chance to check every
word. If email isn't available, I will
telephone you to read the eulogy.
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